I remember as a kid in the mid 70's me and a friend would sit around the local grocery store [A&P] in Detroit and we'd wait for ladies/seniors coming out with a load of groceries and we'd go up to them and ask if they needed help loading them in their vehicle. Of course we were looking for tips and usually made $5 or so each after a few hours, not bad considering back then you could buy a pop and bag of chips for $1. Watching people like that all day you can't help but observe, and there was loads of veterans back then, most of them you could tell because they were often mutilated, missing limbs, noses, faces reconstructed. It was so common that I never thought twice about it, when I was real young I just figured they were born that way, as I got older I figured out and/or was told that they were injured in wars. WW2 vets were around 45 years old, Korean even younger, and Vietnam vets not far out of their teens. WW1 vets for that matter were not rare but rapidly dwindling, 75 to 85 years old.
Guy who lived next store to us was Puerto Rican, named Mr Cruz. He only had 1 leg, even had a handicapped parking space which was rare back then. Never thought about it as a kid but for sure, he lost his leg in WW2 or Korea. Had a son named Tommy, I remember the guy, kind of hippyish, had long black curly hair. Nice guy, probably in his late teens, I helped him clean his porch with water one time and he gave me $1, after that I'd often ask him if he had any jobs for me, he always encouraged my growing work ethic and come up with something, bagging leaves or whatever.
One day we were pulling up to our house and I noticed something, I said hey ma, how come Mrs Cruz has a gold star hanging on her door ? She said um well ,, Do you remember Tommy ? I said yeah. She said well, he was in a war and got killed, and the government gives parents of sons killed in wars gold stars. Didn't really comprehend but it sunk in over time, this was a family that gave their all, and they were the rule rather than the exception. Another guy down the block had both legs completely blown off but ambled around faster than anyone could walk with his arms, I guess its good that things like this aren't commonplace anymore.
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