Nathan wrote:
all accident reports should be locked as soon as they are posted. Every accident thread on wix ends in a brawl.
Nathan my good man, I'll have to respectfully disagree with you a bit here.
Are there times when flare ups and heated differences of opinion occur during the posting of fatal accidents? Of course there are and that's to be expected when emotions are predictably running high. But the knowledge and value of what develops in threads such as these are invaluable as well as the much needed posts that are generated to begin the long process of healing for those in need.
We all know no one wants to see these tragic threads develop but I can think of nowhere were their needed more as many members here are sometimes closely related to these horrible events.
For every one post that generates some sort of negative feedback there are usually ten times the posts that are comforting to read under the tragic conditions they are posted. Not to mention posts that are quite valuable to those that are in need of experienced and responsible input as to what could have caused such terrible results.
The knowledge gained and emotional support that these threads generate is critical to the healing process. Again Nathan, no one ever wants to see these type of threads on WIX or anywhere for that matter, but they do have value and they do help those who need emotional support and possible answers.
What is most critical is to show restraint from speculation, awareness of others feelings and compassion and support towards those who have been affected far more than the rest of us. As I stated before we are all family whether we know each other personally or not.