Dear Ryan,
I respect your right to your views and beliefs, both moral and religious. However, I don't accept them as universal nor are they good enough for me; and you have no right to demand (rather than to try and convince) others to adhere to your position. There are fundamental issues with all religion, including Christianity, starting with the demand for faith over proof, which I'm sure we don't need to argue here as we aren't going to agree. Generally I've found the gay people I've worked with a lot less of a PITA (intended)than some Christians, and it's the Christians (among other religious and 'social police' groups) who feel mandated to tell others how to behave - not a gay position, IMHO.
The US has an enshrined break between the church and the state - the UK, for instance does not, having a state religion and has a much more pragmatic and tolerant approach to gays in the military. On that argument the US is lagging there in social progress. Harassing people and exposing them to blackmail for what you believe and I don't is a 'moral' position is counter productive.
If you wish people like me to tolerate your views, then it's reasonable to expect you to return the favour. Frankly I don't care what people get up to in their private lives as long as it doesn't hurt others - and they act professionally in their workplaces.
In other words, mind your own.
The military of any country have to have licence to break some of the the most basic social and often religiously enforced tenants - starting with 'thou shalt not kill'. We ask them to undertake a morally compromising position for us, and on that basis, I see arguments over sexual preferences as, frankly, trivial.
Some of my best friends are religious, btw.
Just a factually based morally-tested position, able, unlike
all religious ones, to pass logical, factual testing.
Regards,