There is a Grand Canyon's worth of difference between "patriotism" and any party affiliation or blindly accepting that what "your country" does is infallible.
I don't believe that everything the US has done in the past (or is doing currently) is right. Believing that the US is infallible somehow isn't patriotic, it's just plain ignorant. In fact, thinking that "our" side has exclusive use of being "right" or "good", and that others are exclusively "wrong" or "evil" is equally ignorant.
It's not a black and white world. Nor is it a red, white, and blue world. Like it or not, it's shades of gray. The American shade of gray has sometimes been pretty close to white, and sometimes pretty close to black. I'd venture that, among civilizations in history, that's pretty close to how most others have looked, too, at various times.
In fact, I personally believe that it's a very high form of patriotism to question what your country does and has done -- after all, the Minutemen questioned THEIR government, and when they didn't agree with it, they acted to change it. I'm not advocating acting out with a musket (or rifle), but I am enthusiastically advocating being intelligently engaged with the civil process of our republic. Blindly following some party's political agenda doesn't count, in my book. Thinking for yourself and acting in accordance with the ideals laid out in the Constitution and Bill of Rights does, though. The most basic and important form of engagement is simply VOTING. IMHO, if you don't vote, you are bypassing your most basic responsibility as an American.
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Like a cancer we will have to deal with you. Never in my wildest dreams do I think that I can change your views. I will trust in the political process. I have always felt at home with those who serve. They will always be my heroes. The rest of you are just going through the motions. Most of you don’t have a clue. I served and paid my dues and I know what it is like to hear the pipes play Amazing Grace when you bury a friend.
A couple things:
1) Having served in the military doesn't make anyone's opinion more valid than anyone else's, but it cetainly shows that they value the Republic and are willing to actually participate in defending it. That DOES count for something in my book...but it is not the only method of being an engaged American citizen, by a long shot.
2) Just because someone isn't a flag-waving, U-S-A chanting person doesn't automatically make them a clueless tree-hugging, blame-America hippie. Nor does it make them a 'cancer'. You can't possibly have read (and understood) the same Bill of Rights that I did, and seriously believe that.
3) There is no #3
4) Final thought: If this were a one point-of-view-is-right country/culture/civilization, it wouldn't be America. It would be fascism.