Some interesting points and thoughts. However:
Bluedharma wrote:
We could also change unconditional to conditional surrender (which we did anyway with the emperor… and just called it unconditional)
No, not at all. The Japanese surrendered unconditionally. What occurred afterwards was decisions made by Allied high command and politicians; the Japanese got what they were given. There was no 'changing' to 'conditional'.
Bluedharma wrote:
Japan knew if the Russians were to join the war, they would have lost. That was why they were talking to Russia about negotiating a conditional surrender.
Truman was placing his bets on the Soviets joining in so that American lives would be spared. All we had to do is have a little patience.
Indeed. But Stalin had agreed to the unconditional surrender requirement along with the other allies. Russia might have been prepared to negotiate with Japan - or just take territory; and Japan was hoping that Russia was the least dedicated of its enemies, but Russia would have broken its agreement regarding unconditional surrender - and I can't see the other Allies underwriting a Russian-Japanese negotiated peace.
mustangdriver wrote:
I am a little tired of people writting stuff like what that guy did in the link posted to the San Fran paper
Your or my being 'tired' is utterly irrelevent, I'm afraid. Stand up and take it.

One of the problems with history is human beings like simple, straightforward stories and rationalise complex situations into simple ones - which are what's remembered. Coupled with bad history being easier to do and remember, this results in a lot of myths. Just think about all the stories of the American Civil War or War of Independence which are simplifications that make good kid's stories.
The article in the paper was very poor and heavily slanted. A good game to play is spot where the emotive adjectives have been put...
Incidentally your 'bully' metaphor is all very well provided one assumes the entirety of the population (the 'body') was in agreement with the actions of the dictator (the 'head'). In the case of totalitarian dictatorships, that doesn't follow.
I also note the rather odd problem that crops up (mentioned by Scott) that some people today find a informed population that in part disagrees with the conduct of the war unacceptable - with a 'shoot the messenger' element of blaming the press.
Every military has adequately proven that they cannot be trusted to conduct a war (effectively and within the constitutional or ethical limits of its nation) without external oversight, and direct press influence goes back to the Crimea. But you can't have it both ways; democracies are founded on the concept of an open debate, and thus a
consensual war. (However, that's another whole can of worms.) The Russian front cannot have occurred as the slaughterhouse it did, without it being two totalitarian leaderships.
Russia bled Germany white - just look at the numbers which are inconceivable in the west.
Regards,