With a very heavy heart I have to tell all my new friends here that my hero ... my father just had is last rights a few minutes ago. I'm sitting in my office right now and my sisters, who are with my father in Michigan just called me a little while ago and told me my father had enough. He was 87 years old and a darn good pilot. I've bragged about my dad a few times here so anyone who has read any of my posts knows his naval avaition career. He had a good one. My dad has been in ICU for over a week. I just got back last Thursday from being by his side for several days. I had a very hard decision to make ... should I stay with him in Michigan? ... or should I fly back to California?. He seemed to be improving when I left and I felt I had to continue with my life and resposibilities. Well I just hope I made the right decision. I should have stayed with him. .... I will be flying back hopefully tomorrow.
I'm OK with this though, I knew he wouldn't be with us long, I just didn't think it would be this soon, I thought he would have a few more months and I was working on bringing him out here to my home, but I guess I was just too late. When I left him last week I looked in his eyes and gave him a big hug and I left the hospital knowing that probably would be the last time I would be able to say goodbye. I hoped it wouldn't, but he had had enough.
He's now going to go up and move in with mom. I'm happy for them both today. I just hope my sisters will forgive me for not being there today.
All fighter pilots go to heaven right?
I hope you all don't mind me sharing this with you, I feel lost right now and just need to do something .... this post seems to help right now.
Mark
