you want to help a vet? DO something. Lawyers, offer him pro bono services should he need them. Doctors, offer him acetominophin like the Army did. Carpenter, work on his house for him--buld him a ramp for his wheelchair or a drive-in dinner table so he can eat in his chair without being frustrated.
There are a ton of things you can DO. Instead we Americans like to throw money at our issues. Many of us refuse to go to the VA, because we KNOW what they will do. I have managed to avoid the "church" for ten years. I'll be damned if I'm going to ask those cretins for help now. America was built on the ethic of "I'm there for you when you need me," and it's turned into "here's some money. Go away."
It's got to the point that I dispair of ever making headway. And then every now and then some hero pops up and makes me a believer again.
Thanks, to all you heroes who have helped me along when I couldn't do it any more. I may not have been able to show it at the time, but I have been humbled by the generosity of so many good hearted Americans that I can't begin to repay their kindness.
DO something. Don't just throw money at it. There are VFW's and American Legion halls in every city and town in America. It's not like you can't find a vet in need. We're everywhere, eh?
And NO, I don't want one of you guys showing up at 3 am on my doorstep with a skillsaw, a case of beer, and twenty sheets of plywood