Nathan, bit of a blunt bit of advice from someone a bit older - it appears you don't want it badly enough. If you did, the call to AOPA would've happened; you'd know (or have found out by looking for yourself) what an FBO is (first answer on Google - I checked) and you'd have some results of effort to show, not excuses that there's 'no jobs at the airport'. If you need your fellow WIX members to tell you what an FBO is, you are looking for others to do your thinking and planning for you - you aren't going to get to being a pilot from there.
You've had some good advice, and I'd back that up. In addition, you are in an affluent first world country, and we are repeatedly assured that the American dream is available. The difference between people who live their dream and those who just talk about it is the successful ones made it happen - it hurt
not to succeed, because they wanted it bad enough to work smart, do the hours, see the opportunities and make the chances work for them. Luck and money help, but if you haven't got either on tap, graft and thinking will substitute.
A practical bit of advice. Go hang round at the airport and make yourself useful for free. If that sounds like it's a) difficult or b) impossible, then, again you don't actually want it bad enough.
Straight talk.

Prove me wrong by succeeding.